I know why you are here... why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, why night after night you sit at your computer. You're looking for him. I know, becoause I was once looking for the same thing. And when he found me, he told me I wasn't really looking for him. I was looking for an answer... It is looking for you (out there). And it will find you, if you want it to. Search & ye shall find! (Bibl)